From profile to a real plan
Greenlight Date is an offer first dating app on the web and Android for eligible singles age 18 and older. Members browse complete profiles with moderated photos and video introductions, use visible availability to plan a date, and send a concrete offer with an activity, day, time, and place.
1. Create and publish your profile
Sign up, add your profile information and moderated photos, then publish your profile. You can also add a video introduction and use optional smart photo ordering.
You do not need to buy a plan before publishing your profile or participating. At a live Greenlight Date singles event, check in with the event code to discover fellow attendees.
2. Find someone you want to ask out
Browse member profiles and look at the availability they choose to share. The goal is to identify a real time and activity that could work, not to wait for an unlimited message thread.
3. Send a specific date offer or counter offer
Choose an activity, day, time, and public location, then send the offer. The other member can accept, suggest a counter offer with a new day, time, or place, or decline privately with no awkward rejection message and no chat opened.
4. Coordinate, reconfirm, add to calendar, and check in after the date
Messaging opens after an offer is accepted. Each person can send up to 20 messages for that date cycle to coordinate the plan. You can add the date to Google Calendar or download an .ics calendar file.
Both people reconfirm within the four hours before the scheduled start. You can also share a private date safety link with a trusted friend. Members who consistently confirm and keep their dates can earn the Shows up reliability badge.
After the date, complete a private check-in with standout tags, an optional review of up to 120 characters, and your second-date choice. If both people want to meet again, Greenlight Date reveals the mutual yes.
| Lifecycle Stage | Member Action | Platform Rule and Safety Boundary |
|---|---|---|
| 1. Profile and Availability | Publish moderated photos, optional profile video introduction, and open weekly availability windows | Free Red tier participation requires no purchase; optional Didit live selfie and government ID check awards the Verified badge |
| 2. Date Offer or Counter Offer | Send a specific date offer naming the activity, day, time, and public venue | Recipient can accept, propose a one step counter offer with a new time or public venue, or privately decline with zero unsolicited chat |
| 3. Confirmed Date Chat and Calendar | Coordinate arrival details and export the plan to Google Calendar or .ics | Focused chat unlocks only after acceptance (up to 20 messages per member for that date cycle) plus a private date safety link to share with a trusted friend |
| 4. Pre Date Reconfirmation | Confirm attendance inside the 4 hour window before the scheduled start time | Unconfirmed dates cancel automatically. Members with a consistent record of kept dates can earn the Shows up reliability badge |
| 5. Post Date Check In | Complete private post date check in, standout tags, optional 120 character review, and second date choice | Mutual yes reveals that both people want to meet again and unlocks one tap second date planning |
| 6. Live Singles Events | Scan the venue QR code or enter the six-character event code at the door | Unlocks temporary room discovery across all tiers regardless of home distance radius, venue perks, host raffle wheel, and event date raffle |
5. Live singles events, venue perks, and event raffles
At in person Greenlight Date singles events, attendees scan the venue QR code or enter the six character event code in Discover to check in while the event window is open. Checking in unlocks an event only Discover tab showing eligible checked in attendees in the room across every tier regardless of home distance radius (while standard daily offer limits still apply), unlocks venue perks, and enters you into the host raffle wheel and event date raffle.
Free participation and optional plans
The free Red plan includes up to two date offers per day. Paid plans are optional (Yellow at $9.99 per month for six offers per day and Green at $19.99 per month for 10 offers per day), and optional single purchase offer packs start at $1.99 for +1 offer or $4.99 for +3 offers.
Ready to make a real plan?
Create your account, publish your profile, and send your first date offers without purchasing a plan first.
Create your profile